Well, it wasn’t quite what we hoped for, was it? It’s hard to remember what happened in 2020 and what happened in 2021 but there we go.
Schools
January started with school lockdown for Ben, after just 1 day back for him then bang, the government did what it should have done even just 24 hours earlier. I was still teaching, but with an even more reduced class. Creating videos, working with those in class and a bit of extra release time to do that. I had a great end to my first year in my new job and it absolutely the right move for me to make. I started the school year with the same class, some, still not back due to their medical needs but the same team. Then at half term I was asked to move to another class to help out a class that needed a bit of a shake up and consistency. It’s not my bag, but it is challenging me! Plus it has meant meeting a few more people that work there thanks to being in a different bubble. I’m going back to my old class in the summer, and I am looking forward to that, especially as we will be moving in to our new classroom in the new build. That is exciting! I also took on another personal challenge this year, my NPQSL, or National Professional Qualification for Senior Leaders. It’s interesting and a good chance to reflect on my self as a leader. Ben had a big change too this year. He moved to secondary! Thankfully he was able to do some of the traditional Y6 stuff such as leavers assembly with us sitting in masks and distanced. But at least he did it. Their show was filmed and a parent arranged for it to be screen at the local cinema so Ben and Joe went to see that. Sadly he didn’t get his residential, but there we go. I’m fairly sure he will remember his Y6 for many years to come! He seems to have settled well at high school, though all the stuff to take and PE kit 4 times a week one week out of 2 is a bit of a challenge! Proud of him for settling in, making new friends and working well. Seb has moved up to pre-school and we have applied for his reception place. It’s so weird that he is currently older than Ben was when he started in Reception but still has 9 months to wait! We’ll find out where he is going around Easter time, but we’ve opted for a different 1st choice to that that Ben went to. They are such different personalities.
Music.
Music has continued to be important to me throughout 2021. At work is has allowed me to connect with those in class and those still at home. The Collective has continued to play a huge part in my life over the last 12 months. We’ve covered songs such as The Rose, I’m still standing, Do you hear the people sing (with 1000 voices!) and this Christmas even Chris de Burgh heard our version of his song “A Spaceman Came travelling”. I stepped up to be a music team leader and now an overseer. The friendships I’ve built on over these 12 months have been amazing. One friend, Laura even drove from Aberdeen to meet me and come on my birthday weekend! (More on that later) and in December I got to meet Simon aka The Boss and several others at a small concert. The lovely Karen and HNH even put me up for the night. Strange to think I hadn’t met these people in person before this event, I’ve spent so much time with them all it feels like I’ve known them years and years! Looking forward to what 2022 will bring for The Collective. At the end of 2020 I also passed my audition for Endeavour mixed chorus. Sadly due to restrictions we haven’t been able to sing in person yet, so I’m not officially in yet, but it’s been great to have a new challenge of mixed barbershop (and therefore bari not bass) and I look forward to meeting these voices and faces I’ve seen/heard on Jamulus and Jitsi.
Family and friends
Sadly again covid has meant not enough time with family and friends in 2021. Lockdowns and restrictions meant events not celebrated and times together at a minimum for large chunks of time. However, we did spend time together and Christmas this year was lovely being able to see my parents, my inlaws and my brother and his girlfriend (and her baby bump!) which is the big thing that I missed in 2020. Been very happy to spend time with them all, even if it hasn’t been as much as I’d like. This summer me, Joe and the boys had the chance to go on holiday. We made it back to my favourite coastline, the Yorkshire Coast. We had a fabulous time on the beaches at Bridlington and Filey, enjoyed a stroll around Peasholme Park and fish and chips at Winking Willie’s and many more lovely times. I even sneaked in a couple of meet ups with friends who live up there. This summer I also managed to finally do one of my 40th birthday celebrations! 10 friends joined me in Windermere where we stayed in the beautiful Bannerigg. We had a fab time playing Cards against humanity, time in the hot tub, making and building on friendships (lots of these people had never met each other despite being in my life for ages!) And eating lots. The burger company we bought from were called Boom Boom Burgers and as well as yummy food, they made us laugh and gave us a playlist as each burger was named after a song with Boom in the title! The lovely Laura who I met through the Collective even came to meet me, and my lovely friends for the first time which was amazing. The final night just the two of us was great and I look forward to more. Just a shame Aberdeen is a long way so they have to be more planned.
I’m still taking my photo every day. I can’t imagine not doing it now. March will see my 15th year of it! I’ve made so many good friends through it and so many memories kept too. I periodically look back at them. All the photos in this come from that.
So there we go. Lots of positives, but still the looming fear of getting sick or those around me getting sick. I am thankful for the vaccine programme and I’m triple jabbed. I look forward to Ben getting his at some point as he’s in limbo of being high school but only 11 and the UK not yet doing the 5-11 group. I’m trying to be as kind to myself as possible and take plenty of time to reflect and have “me time”. Let’s see what 2022 has to offer.